Is fear of failure keeping you stuck?

This is a big one. It comes up with so many of the clients I work with. The fear that if I make a change from what is a familiar life - even if many things do not make me happy - what if I fail? What if its worse? What if I am more unhappy?

I often ask clients ‘What would failure look like in this scenario?’ and as they talk it through it seems not as bad as this screaming voice in their head thought it might be. And then I ask, ‘and how would you cope if that worst case scenario happened?’ and as clients talk through what they would do, it suddenly feels lighter and manageable.

Many people think that there is one ‘right’ way to do things, but actually the only right decision is what feels right to you in that moment. In this scenario the problem is often looking outside of yourself to others for answers about what is the right thing, weighing up everyone else’s opinions endlessly… and then it all feels too overwhelming and it’s so much easier to stay where you are.

I can help you to clear the beliefs which are keeping you stuck, to clear any trauma from the body and mind (left over from times in the past where you may have felt ashamed when something went wrong), to build your confidence and resilience, so that you can get out there and live a life that on your death bed you will be proud of.

Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation.